Good lord! What the hell is wrong with me?
Luke is my third e-Harmony date ever. The first was the infamous BB. The second, the not so famous kiss-forcer (who dropped off the planet, thankfully) and now Luke, a happy-go-lucky Parrot-head, grown up frat boy kinda guy.
We met at a local casual tiki-deck kind of place, on the water. A fairly nice scene for a Tuesday night date. I was actually on time, he got there early and secured a decent table near the water (bonus points for extra effort). He's an attractive guy, I think. My problem, and I've said this before, I go for burly, hairy guys. He was a nice height, blonde and not that hairy. What the hell is wrong with me!? I am sitting across the table from a blonde, blue-eyed, 6 foot tall guy who works out, owns his own home and is gainfully employed. I should have been launching myself across the table at him. Instead, I am wondering whether he is "right" for me. Who cares?! The guy is buying me dinner and beers! And he might do it again, if I could get over myself for two seconds.
Amazingly, we talked about 50/50, unlike the last time where it was the Susan Show for 4 hours straight. He kept up. He has eaten Boca Burgers. Knows that turkey isn't vegetarian. Likes live music. In fact, he is friends with most of the members of two locally famous bluegrass bands. Bonus points again.
Normally, I get a little email from a guy afterward - "hey, had a great time! Look forward to seeing you again..." Haven't gotten that yet. I'd go out with him again, but I'm not sure that I would initiate.