How come when I get angry at someone, and its deserved, and I tell them calmly and reasonably why I'm upset, that I end up feeling bad? Because now they feel bad because they made me feel bad?
I guess this is why I'm in therapy.
I can say however, that its some kind of progress. Three years ago I would have never let on that I was upset and would have just been passive aggressive and avoidant for two weeks.
PS, is anyone still out there? I miss blogging and my blogging friends.